I see that the fear is the most common factor at the time of not being able to create the life that we would like to have. When one undergoes an unfortunate marriage during years, the reason behind all the reasons that are adduced not to separate is the fear. Fear to the reaction of the other person, fear to what will say, fear to that it makes worse the economic situation, fear to emotional consequences for the children, to remain the list is only interminable. The same happens when we followed in a work that does poor devils to us. We are scared to leave something has certain security, or certain social, labor or economic status, and not to possibly find anything better.